Welcome to Death Cafe

A Death Cafe is an event where people drink tea, eat cake and discuss death.

At a Death Cafe people drink tea, eat cake and discuss death. Our aim is to increase awareness of death to help people make the most of their (finite) lives.

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Support Death Cafe

Running Death Cafe is great fun but does take a lot of time. If you value this work please support us on Patreon.

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Talking about death

A Death Cafe is an agenda free discussion about death. So far we've held 23577 Death Cafes.

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To date we've held 23577 Death Cafes. These never involve agendas, advertising or set conclusions. Interesting conversations are guaranteed!

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Host a Death Cafe

People who adopt the model set out in our guide are welcome to set up their own Death Cafes. So far we've held Death Cafes in 97 countries.

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Support Death Cafe

Running Death Cafe is great fun but does take time and resources. If you value this work please support us on Patreon.

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Recent posts

Death Cafe: Colorado Springs Death Cafe'

Posted by gnovack@gmail.com on April 29, 2026, 9:12 a.m.



With Jerry “Dr. Sunshine” Novack, PhD

May 3, 2026, 2.00 p.m. - 3.30 p.m. (MST)

Accepts donations




With Kristin Stolte

May 9, 2026, 12.00 p.m. - 1.30 p.m. (PST)

Free


Hosted by Death Doula Kristin Stolte.



Death Cafe: La Mesa Death Cafe Davis Family YMCA , CA

Posted by ecolovetransitions on April 28, 2026, 2:49 p.m.



With Nicole Soares

May 7, 2026, 11.00 a.m. - 12.30 p.m. (PST)

Accepts donations


If your life is a movie, how does it end? The truth is, most of us don’t feel like we have a lot of say in how our own ...



Death Cafe: Regina Death Cafe

Posted by sagefuneralhome on April 28, 2026, 1 p.m.



With Sage Funeral Home

May 7, 2026, 6.30 p.m. - 8.30 p.m. (CST)

Accepts donations


A safe space to discuss life, death and everything in between. 



Death Cafe write up: Albany Virtual Death Cafe PST

Posted by JimKirkpatrick on April 28, 2026, 11:42 a.m.

Genevieve and Jim opened the April Death Cafe with 12 of us participating from UK, USA and Canada. Topic included feelings related to Death, feelings of peace and satisfaction when in service, when interacting and connected. Questions about accessing help, asking for help, and Near Death Experience. Speaking and listening was most of our time. And a fair amount of time being silently present.



Death Cafe: Ballard Death Cafe Seattle

Posted by lorien on April 28, 2026, 11:11 a.m.



With Lorien Gruchalla and Nora Carria

May 3, 2026, 6.30 p.m. - 8.30 p.m. (Pacific)

Free


Ballard–Alki Odd Fellows is proud to donate space for the Ballard Death Café. The Independent Order of Odd Fellows’ mission is grounded in mutual aid, compassion, and community care ...



Death Cafe: Virtual Death Cafe MDT

Posted by Maureen Spencer on April 28, 2026, 10:58 a.m.



With Maureen Spencer

May 7, 2026, 1.00 a.m. - 3.00 p.m. (MST)

Free




Death Cafe: Llandysul Death Cafe

Posted by Skanda Vale Hospice on April 28, 2026, 5:41 a.m.



With Skanda Vale Hospice

May 7, 2026, 6.00 p.m. - 8.00 p.m. (gmt)

Accepts donations


At a Death Cafe, we create space for genuine, unhurried discussion about mortality—a topic that touches all our lives yet rarely finds its way into everyday conversation.

What to ...



Death Cafe: East Dallas Death Cafe

Posted by LisaClemmer on April 27, 2026, 9:02 p.m.



With Lisa Clemmer

May 1, 2026, 12.00 p.m. - 2.00 p.m. (CST)

Free



Death Cafe: Death Cafe Winchester

Posted by Chelsea on April 27, 2026, 5:15 p.m.


With Ruth Chase and Chelsea Duke

April 30, 2026, 5.45 p.m. - 7.00 p.m. (GMT)

Free


The idea behind Death Café is to make end of life an easier subject to talk about. 

Ruth and Chelsea will facilitate discussion so all who want to contribute have ...



Death Cafe: Central Houston’s Monthly Death Cafe - May 2026

Posted by Houston Death Cafe on April 27, 2026, 2:36 p.m.



With Stephanie Wolff

May 2, 2026, 11.00 a.m. - 1.00 p.m. (CST)

Accepts donations


Talking about death won’t kill you, so come along to a Death Café!

 

All are welcome at our monthly discussion circle on death (and life).

 

We are meeting this ...



Death Cafe: BALLINA NSW Death Cafe

Posted by jasperroy on April 26, 2026, 11:18 p.m.


With Kerry Johnston

May 2, 2026, 10.30 a.m. - 12.00 p.m. (Australia )

Free


To provide a safe space for conversation about life and death matters. People are invited to share or just listen to the stories.  



Death Cafe: Mindful End of LIfe BST - Death Cafe online

Posted by Mindful End of Life on April 26, 2026, 4:01 p.m.



With Bob Chiang & Choshin Blackburn

April 30, 2026, 9.30 p.m. - 10.30 p.m. (UK)

Accepts donations


The Mindful End of Life Death Café takes place on the last Thursday of each month 9:30pm UK & 4:30pm EST.

It offers a warm, welcoming space for open ...



Death Cafe: Death Cafe Belgrade

Posted by Inna Diachenko on April 26, 2026, 9 a.m.


With Inna Diachenko

May 2, 2026, 2.00 p.m. - 4.00 p.m. (CEST)

Accepts donations



Death Cafe write up: Virtual Death Cafe South Africa

Posted by Marie-Louise on April 24, 2026, 10:50 a.m.


End-of-life doulas Lisa Ludwig-Mackenzie & Marie-Louise Steyn co-hosted this gathering at 7:30 p.m., SAST, on April 23rd. There were 16 of us, including 2 guests from the US. The duration of our Café was 90 minutes.

 

After brief introductions and sharing what brought each of us to DC, we split into two breakout rooms for more intimate discussions. Our conversations travelled far and wide, from the personal realities of loss and the role of a doula to complex discussions on VSED, MAiD, and the Kubler-Ross stages of grief. We touched upon the essential nature of end-of-life planning, the reality of navigating transitions alone, the intentionality ...